Ok ladies – as infuriating as men can be sometimes, there’s really no reason to carry on a vindictive rampage for more than a couple days. I have been privy to several women’s vindictive warpaths over the years and really, in the end, rather than coming off as the superior partner in the relationship, you come off as an evil, sour, selfish C-U-N-T who is neither desirable nor likeable. Case in point:
The girl who gets knocked up on purpose to try to “keep” her boyfriend. There’s a reason you guys broke up the first ten times and having a baby is not going to fix things. So congratulations on becoming another statistic, adding another child to my child support – I mean taxes – and not ending up with the baby’s daddy anyways. Because you guys still couldn’t get along well enough to be a couple, do not then try to control your baby’s daddy’s life by holding screaming matches with his latest live-in love, dictating when/where he can see his son, mandating that the visitation is by your social calendar alone and doing anything else you can to receive the maximum child support payment and work the minimum number of hours possible when your child care [your mother] is free. Your baby’s daddy doesn’t ask who you sleep with when you don’t have your son, why is his love life any of your business? Embrace the fact that without the sperm donor you unsuccessfully tried to trap, you wouldn’t have the gorgeous child in your arms and get over it. He may be an ass, but that doesn’t give you license to be a bitter bitch the rest of your life.
The 2nd wife who treats the child/children from her husband’s first marriage like shit. You are evil bitches. Look – the guy had a life with you and his children are a part of the package deal. [This is also assuming the kids are actually good kids, well-behaved, etc….if they are out of control hellions, you are the dumbass who committed yourself to a jerk-off who won’t raise his kids to be respectful adults so that’s your own damn fault.] You have no right to ridicule, chastise or refuse to share the rearing of innocent children just because you’re a selfish, insecure, jealous, immature, poor excuse of a woman who cannot step up to the plate and accept your role as a step-mother but instead makes those children’s lives a living hell.
The ex-girlfriend/ex-wife who’s always trying to seduce your ex-boyfriend/ex-husband every chance you get. Really, you come off as just a desperate bi-polar (he’s not good enough to live with but good enough to fuck) slutty bitch who’s determined to play on a guy’s insecurities and feelings (especially if you have kids together) and who wins in that situation? The guy who got his dick sucked and mind fucked or the indecisive not-to-be-trusted lonely bitch who won’t make the effort to get her own man but just keeps playing with the ones she threw away? Come on – get new booty – that’ll fuck with your ex’s head more than you sleeping with him randomly anyways because it means you’ve moved on.
The ex-wife who tries to suck the life out of her ex-husband and uses the kids as pawns. Ok this one is a big no-no in my book and you chicks are just total C-U-N-T’s who really are reserving your places in Hell next to Jeffrey Dahmer and Hitler as far as I’m concerned and you give the rest of us chicks a bad name and a bunch of guys totally disgusted by the female race. You know who you are. You go for maximum child support/alimony because the more you get, the less you work. You insist the ex-husband pay for every sport and summer camp YOU’VE enrolled the kids in and then tell them he doesn’t love his kids when he refuses to fork over more money. You spy on his new girlfriend. You stalk his new girlfriend. You tell your children that if they dare to like his new wife then that means they don’t really love you. You deny your new marriage (which would cancel your alimony checks) and insist it was just a “commitment” ceremony, even though you were registered on weddingchannel.com and your daughter said the wedding was beautiful. You are evil, life-sucking, penis-shriveling shrews. You got divorced, bitch; get over it. Reclaim your independence and focus on being a great mother, not a mediocre guardian to your children and an over-analyzing pathetic excuse of a woman. Spare me the “I don’t date because it’s not fair to the kids” or “I don’t work so I can be home for my kids [ages 10 and 14]” routine. It’s old, it’s over-used and it’s bullshit. You’re just too bitter to move on with your life and if you’re going to be bitter, you’re going to make sure everyone else is going to be bitter too. That’s just, well, pathetic. Tell Jeff and Adolf I said Hi.
LOL! You are too funny. I like your writing style and how you think. Keep up the good work! Take care, A.
How in the hell you gone post something you created because you lost yo man to a young women and wanted to to everthing possible to make her self destruct the image you tried to create for her is actually the image you try to hide of yourself
you are the one who is very selfish destructive and hurtful to any one who reminds you of this secnerio from your past
you are to informed of the whole situation and you need to get over it and stop causing ill will for their lieves and controll your own life
you are hateful
I know you posted this awhile ago but I just have to say PREACH IT GIRL. My personal fav is the “EX” ugh crazy fucking bitch that post this sad little story about the deadbeat not “paying” for his kids that btw you won’t let him see. Then go around saying what a great NEW hubby you have and how he’s a better dad then the “sperm donor” ever was…lmao and in the same breathe say tell the family that your not alienating the kids because you “ever say anything bad about their dad” give me an f**king break!!!! ugh thanks for the mini vent!
Oh that is too funny. I just started posting on wordpress and saw this. My husband’s ex-wife was barely a wife at all—strangely enough, I think she would have preferred he was just the “sperm donor” and NOT marry her after the accidental knock-up! (After all, this is what she did the SECOND time around and the man had the sense to leave right away! Sad for the kids, but mommy is a sociopath.) With my husband, she’d cheated, had a private P.O. box for mail from a lover while married to my husband, denied, lied, denied, then lied some more, even had the nerve to ask my husband to stay with her but she’d like to *@#* other men!!! Pretty trashy. And that’s when he finally got out of there. He’s been the only man to stick around in any capacity because of his daughter, but sadly he let sociopathic ex walk all over him before I came into the picture. When we dated, I saw the terrible boundaries and behavorial problems with the daughter–maybe I should have run, maybe you have a point, but come on, is that really realistic? My husband is a good human being, just the type of sucker to get fooled by a narcissist like his ex–and the DO have their suckers–and he’s learned that lesson the hard way, but he’s very lovable and GOOD. Not too long into our marriage and the birth of our first daughter, sociopathic ex-wife KEYLOGS our computers. Yes, it’s a federal offense, ladies and gentlemen! She’s keylogged others, too, we’ve found out. Got into all our email accounts after gaining access to our computers. Has deleted or manipulated documents I’ve tried to send to my step-daughter, my major offense being I’m more mentally and socially “together” than she is, fear that her lies will be exposed through me–she hates that I’ve enforced healthy boundaries my husband needed in order to have a healthy second marriage. Basically, she hated not being able to have TOTAL CONTROL. BUT… FBI actually DOES investigate these matters, who knew! So she’s been our little cyperstalker for nearly 5 years, using her daughter as a pawn, as these sociopath’s do. I tried so hard to read books on step-parenting when first married (I was a therapist when I first got married,not currently working in that line of work, but I had some skill, if you know what I’m sayin’). Tried to set an example of being a good role model, yet let daddy do all the parenting and dirty work when it came to those issues. We really handled it the healthiest way we could, this woman was just super, super jealous and insecure to the point of becoming a cyber criminal, essentially. Lord knows what else she’s done to others. Wow! Thanks for letting me vent! I hope your readers chuckle but learn a few things along the way. Poor kids get caught in the middle of nutty parents, but sometimes a new family has to let go and move on, the crazy parent allowing nothing else in between or they are out to destroy/ruin, that’s all they care about. So if you’re an adult child of a parent like this, I hope you figure it and GET AWAY. GET HELP. Peace out!